Good luck with that, because it doesn't exist.
1) Your bounce rate varies directly on the quality of the email addresses you are mailing to. I offer a mailing list cleaning service, PM me and I will give you a quote.
2) You need advanced software for this sort of thing. For the volume you described, I recommend VoloMP, which costs somewhere around $2-$5k. This is a NECESSARY expense for what you are trying to do.
If you have any more questions, just post
Jason