| Ashaw, so you felt hesitant about paying via wire and his willingness to push immediately, that is ok, and told him not to hold his breath so to speak and later decided to pass. He ( 9MM ) took that as backing out obviously which imo he isnt 100% wrong for seeing either. I agree with both of you. It was a deal gone bad , it happens.
Ashaw, what should have been said was what you felt, I am not comfortable for reasons XYZ therefore I have decided to pass . It would have ended there or worked through. He could have said you backed out, you could have said why and that would have been that. As long as it isnt a habit it is understandable.
9MM, understand sometimes people get a funny feeling and decide not to follow through, it can suck when you know you are legit but when someone doesnt feel comfortabl just wish then the best and move on.
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