Cool, thanks for letting me know
So I think there may be a decent chance I could get it back, even if I have to pay $160 or something.
Hopefully the Namebargain/Register.com people already know about these Terms (although from some of the explanations they give me sometimes, I don't know if they're not well informed [or misinformed] or just trying to give easy answers targetted at newbies... plus in the email reply they sent, they didn't mention any chance of getting it back, so they may not be aware)... but at least I can show them the Enom auction info, so now there's hope!