It's time, though I hate it when it's time :-
1. Win, I hope you don't encourage this board to degrade into the brainwashing techniques applied by cults i.e. gain my trust, open your aperture to my influence, and let me autopilot you
2. fonze, I hope you don't expect seasoned professionals to buy into the classic mann "Please, don't bully me. Be nice to me."That's a typical 'victim' response 9 out of 10 times.
Dnforum is successful because of all those who contributed their thoughts willingl in a democratic and spirited way. This is not a communist state, nor is it a dictatorial state. We say it like it is.
Think about the above for a while.
Let your inner consciousness process this for just a while.
And maybe, just maybe, you'll accept that you learn more from criticism, than from affirmation.