Below is my conversation with Patty via Gchat that just conlcuded. I did my best to directly ask her questions and give her a fair opportunity to respond. Sorry it is long, but I think it is worth reading.
10:35 PM me: Patty, I'd like to know why you feel the need to cheat people
does it relate to how you grew up?
6 minutes
10:42 PM similiens: You wont be cheated but ok
10:43 PM me: Patty, there now 5-6 people with similar stories...I'm would just like an honest conversation with you about how things came to be this way
similiens: John offered me money Alex
10:44 PM me: and what about that Tai guy?
similiens: the kid was supposed to do link building, he did one week's work. I paid him 90 dollars
He never really built my links
10:45 PM me: and Seek99?
10:46 PM I think he said it was for banners
similiens: if you look on my site
the banners are there
and they have been
me: I think he said he paid you to make the banners
for his site
similiens: No he paid for advertising
I'll show you
10:47 PM me: you mentioned you have a lawyer on retainer
10:48 PM is that correct?
similiens: Yes I do
I am in the process of something personal
me: may I have his/her name?
similiens: No
and I am not saying that to be difficuly
me: why can't I have their name?
10:50 PM ?
similiens: because I dont feel like giving it to you so you can go ambush him as well
me: how would I ambush an attorney?
similiens: with these issues
10:51 PM me: um....is that why you want your attorney involved?
similiens: I'll take care of it
me: *isn't
similiens: Not really
You are the only one that I am converned about
10:52 PM me: so did you graduate from UW or Cleveland State?
12 minutes
11:04 PM similiens: undergrad
11:05 PM went to cleveland state to attend John Marshall
11:07 PM me: John Marshall Law School?
11:08 PM similiens: yup
me: that is in Chicago?
11:09 PM similiens:
http://www.law.csuohio.edu/
me: when did you graduate from John Marshall?
was it a good school?
similiens: I didnt
no
too much crime
me: where did you finish law school then?
11:10 PM similiens: I dropped out my last year
11:11 PM You really want an honest break down of me?
me: from John Marshall or a different school?
similiens: all together
me: why did you drop out?
similiens: I got tired of being made fun of and being told that I couldnt do it
11:12 PM me: so you responded by showing them you couldn't do it?
similiens: i got tired and worn down
http://www.dnforum.com/f155/buy-ads-domainers-sites-thread-372926.html
11:15 PM me: I would like an honest break down of you
11:18 PM Patty, you are still getting your stock funds early this week right?
7 minutes
11:25 PM similiens: hope so
11:26 PM Your money is the PayPal account
They held it
me: so it's definitely in there?
similiens: It never left
me: you did not withdraw it before the dispute was filed?
similiens: nope
11:27 PM Listen, I have tried to make my mark in this world in a good way
I have done many dumb things but I have done many awesome and amazing things
me: Patty, we've all done dumb things
11:28 PM similiens: I know
me: but it appears that would you have done in this case is deliberate
*what you have done
similiens: no it wasnt deliberate
11:29 PM me: I would be more inclined to believe that if you didn't directly lie about some things
for example, we both know our original deal was for
rnr.com and
rzr.com
11:30 PM similiens: Alex, I know it was but the thing is I know what has happened
me: if something happened that made it not possible to deliver the names...that is one thing....but you are denying we even had an agreement for those names
so how can I take you seriously when you say it wasn't deliberate?
11:31 PM ?
11:34 PM Patty?
11:37 PM similiens: yea i am here
you saw how dale was
me: what do you mean?
similiens: i goofed
11:38 PM me: what do you mean you "goofed"?
Dale says he clearly told you he would not take less than $50k for the name
11:39 PM perhaps you misunderstood him?
similiens: i had way too much on my plate Alex
i have 40 ppl who have LLL letter domains that are looking to get sold
11:40 PM me: so you are saying you were aware that anything less than $50k for Rnr.com was not accpetable, but because you were brokering so many LLL.com names...it slipped your mind?
11:41 PM is that a fair analysis?
similiens: there was a guy that i had been talking to said he needed fast money
11:42 PM he had a lll and i think i messed things up
me: well which name did that guy own?
11:43 PM similiens: i am looking through my chats
to remember who it was
11:47 PM me: any luck?
similiens: omg, i know i am not dealing with him anymore
b/c he was shady
11:48 PM asking me to do things
me: well what domain was he having you broker?
11:49 PM similiens: but I have a million chats
I honestly cant remember
me: you don't have a list of the domains you are brokering and who they belong to?
similiens: they are scattered
11:53 PM me: so basically you sold me the names RNR.com and RZR.com, but after signing the contract and then accepting my payment, you realized you made a mistake and could not transfer the names. When you realized this, you panicked and made up the 5 names with the bankruptcy company because you wanted to follow through on delivering me some names.
is that a fair assesment of what happened?
similiens: never made anything up
11:54 PM I had this bakruptcy guy who I have working with me
me: he works locally with you?
similiens: Yes
me: in Seattle?
similiens: I have a lot on offline contacts
11:55 PM me: but you told me the company was in Colorado
similiens: The one he was dealing with
11:56 PM me: so do you deal directly with that company? or does your partner?
similiens: my partner
me: what is the company name?
11:57 PM in Colorado
11:59 PM ?
similiens: Why are you asking all these questions?
12:00 AM Are you trying to set me up?
me: because I'm trying to believe you Patty
I'm trying to figure out exactly what happened that got us to this point
I don't want to assume things without getting your side of the story
12:01 AM so I'm giving you the opportuntiy to be truthful so we can work this out
12:02 AM what is your partner's name?
similiens: Darren
me: can Darren tell me the name of the company in Colorado?
12:03 AM similiens: No, he is on vacation
me: ok, then can you tell me?
similiens: I wish I could
12:04 AM It was something with Direct
12:05 AM me: you told me this was a company you had personally built up a relationship with over many years, but now you can't remember the name?
12:06 AM similiens: Thats not the company I was dealing with
The other company was new
listen, I tried too hard
12:08 AM me: you have said you will give me a full refund. Do you intend to give John one as well?
similiens: Why should I? When he offered me
12:09 AM But I never took his cash out either
my balance is negative 15 cents
me: that is your paypal balance?
12:11 AM similiens: This is insane, they are bringing my family members into this
me: who?
similiens: the forum
12:12 AM My name is S. Patrice Similien
me: that seems to be a point of confusion
what is your actual legal name?
12:13 AM Starlita Patricia Similien?
similiens: correct
but I have it on my bank card and everything
me: then who is/was Jamie "Star" Alison?
similiens: S. Patrice Similien
My cousin
I helped everyone
12:14 AM in my family start sti
stuff online
12:15 AM Thats not one name
Other names
Jamie "Star" Alison
I was listing the different people who would be using my profile
12:16 AM me: you worked for Amazon?
similiens: back in 98
laid off in 00
12:17 AM me: in what government capacity did you work?
12:18 AM somewhere in Seattle?
similiens: I did an internship
They are bringing my cousins in the mix!
12:19 AM Jimmy Jamie and Alison,
12:20 AM me: those bastards!
similiens: Are you being sarcastic?
me: yes
