I am opting for a refund at this point. It's a great domain but unless I can have control I don't think I want it (you can't give it to me). Since the domain is so new you can't transfer it for 60 days. Maybe once it's at a regular registrar I will buy it again since a simply push can be done. However the domain is at a foreign registrar and requires a letter for DNS and whois changes? I don't get that.
I am hoping CAK that you can help this get resolved without any nastiness. Please see this from my perspective. You sold me something yet you can't give it to me.