So today I got an offer on herbalteas.com of $1288, I responded with 25k, the response I got was $2000 with this message "Serious about buying but not at that price."
His second offer in now way shows me he is serious, he's looking for a steal and my 25k for this name is reasonable.
Like Acro, I get frustrated easily with stupid people looking to steal my domains at a low price so they can flip them themselves at the original prices I wanted.

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Adam,
Herbalteas.com is a nice domain, definitely one to hold and wait for one of the larger tea mfg to knock on your door.
I talk to people all the time who are not domainers, and to a lot of people, $2K is a
LOT of money. I think domainers sometimes look at money differently than regular people, partly because so much of it is flying around. There are a ton of well meaning, regular people with hobbies and interests or a small business, who might like a good domain for a development project. There is nothing wrong with that.
A medium-sized business that might appear to have a lot of funds could easily be struggling in this economy, having layoffs etc so to them also, $2K might seem like a lot of money. Yet, they might still want to be improving their business, when the opportunity arises.
Realistically, 99.99% of people in this world are not domainers. That is important to remember if you want to sell a lot of domains. I have sold a few domains, and in my experience very few domains were bought by a speculator who then flipped them for a lot more. How often does that really happen? Domainers are 'afraid' of this happening but is it really that common? If a domainer was a stock investor, and fearful he was selling his stock before its peak, then he might never sell anything. And if you sell a domain that is sold for double a year later, that is not really flipping, that is just growing in value, so it depends on how this is assessed.
If you are dealing with a business buyer, they might still place a low value depending on several factors but you have more of an opening to
educate them on the value of a premium generic domain. To me, business buyers have two main aspects you are dealing with. First, there is the individual himself, who is contacting you - they might have some personal opinions against domain speculators, and lowball you because of that; hard to budge that kind of individual. But the 2nd aspect is the question of why a business even wants your domain - because, a good business is acting based on a
strategy, not just on a whim - and this is where our main upside is. If your domain fits their strategy then they will pay a lot more; the strategy is what matters to them, not a specific number. The best example of this thinking is the sale of iReport.com. For that reason I much prefer to deal in personal email and/or the phone than Sedo; you have more opportunity to try and assess who the buyer is.
Regarding buying, I personally see nothing wrong with lowball offers. If someone really thinks their domain is worth $10K or $100K then why do they list it on a forum or on Sedo with no minimum bid? Its ridiculous. I personally bid $60 on every domain at Sedo, as a first step, to see what the minimum bid really is. If there is no minimum bid, I offer a couple hundred and ask them for their actual, best price to save us both time. To me, a guy with a $100K domain ought to put $50K minimum bid - but they often dont because typically, they wont get any bids at all. So that feels lonely to hear nothing, I guess.
Kevin